So is it you're allowed to see and spend nights with anyone you want, but you get to choose who he hangs out with??? See I never got that open relationship crap...this is another good point that shows why it makes no sense at all. Whatever floats your boat though dude....I just think it causes way more sadness than it does happiness.
there is a difference between hanging out with friends and spending nights with those friends as opposed hanging out with someone you were in an actual relationship with for 5 years and almost got married to.
as i said to brigid, there is a big difference in hanging out with friends and hanging out with someone you actually had a relationship with for 5 years and almost got married to. she was his entire life before she broke up with him. i fail to see the similarity.
and on top of that he wont even go have coffee with me tonight.
its not even so much the exgirlfriend thing i mind but that fact that he doesnt do a thing with me but makes time for other people. the ex thing is just twisting the knife.
id be preety bothered too. he was with her.. but now hes with you. worlds are colliding. i mean you guys are obviously going to talk about him.. its bound to happen. and he knows that.. so how can he possibly be ok with that? you should be conciderate of his feelings and not do it.. but if you do i hope nothing bad happens. =]
and if he does have feelings for her.. am i wrong to think you once had feelings for mike?
So is it you're allowed to see and spend nights with anyone you want, but you get to choose who he hangs out with??? See I never got that open relationship crap...this is another good point that shows why it makes no sense at all. Whatever floats your boat though dude....I just think it causes way more sadness than it does happiness.
It's your life though I'm just going to try to stop attempting to help or understand that whole situation
thats not how an open relationship works.
and on top of that he wont even go have coffee with me tonight.
its not even so much the exgirlfriend thing i mind but that fact that he doesnt do a thing with me but makes time for other people. the ex thing is just twisting the knife.
lets hurt him
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nah its not that big of a deal. just the principal of it all.
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