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do you think there are some people that are just not interested in… 
5th-Jan-2005 08:51 pm
do you think there are some people that are just not interested in love?
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6th-Jan-2005 01:54 am (UTC)
yes...and i believe there are some people who are incapable of love...
6th-Jan-2005 02:05 am (UTC)
You know--I can assume that many people say that they are not interested in love. But love is something that every person needs to survive. It was proven that if a baby is not touched by another human being and not talked to or taken care of (in essence, loved) it will die. They actually did a study on that... And people may say that they aren't interested in love, or in being in love, but it's a human naturality. You naturally crave love--even if you've been shunned by it before. Love is the only emotion that doesn't make sense and can be everlasting.

P.S. I love your hair!
6th-Jan-2005 02:06 am (UTC)
People can fight forever saying that they are incapable of love and that they don't need love, but they are lying.
6th-Jan-2005 03:14 am (UTC)
perhaps you are correct in your above statement...i have no honest comment in contrast to what you said...i know about myself, and i believe wholeheartedly in love...however, when i view certain other people, i begin to wonder about their ability
6th-Jan-2005 04:31 am (UTC)
yeah. sometomes i wonder.
6th-Jan-2005 05:30 am (UTC)
thanks about the hair :)

yeah i dunno sometimes. like, i see people walking around me that are just so turned off by the thought of love, being romantic and all that. like they just seem to have no interest in it. and i just dont understand that. maybe because i am the kind of person that loves whole heartedly and it hurts when i see anything else.

i wonder if some people only crave lust and not love.
6th-Jan-2005 03:26 am (UTC)
I think that some people don't like to grow up and face the facts, that they are a grown up. I also think some people take others for granted and don't really know what love is, especially when that other person loves them with their entire being.
6th-Jan-2005 05:31 am (UTC)
yeah your probably right. i dunno anymore.
6th-Jan-2005 05:00 am (UTC)
i think some people are scared of lover their-for they dont allow themself to love. but i believe that everyone dreams and wants love.
6th-Jan-2005 05:32 am (UTC)
god i hope so. after a while though youd think they wouldnt be so scared of it. like i just dont understand that :(
7th-Jan-2005 07:11 am (UTC)
i think its a trust issue?
7th-Jan-2005 07:34 pm (UTC)
i think its beyond a trust issue
6th-Jan-2005 05:44 am (UTC)
With true love you need respect and while many people claim to love others...without that respect their "love" isn't real
6th-Jan-2005 05:54 am (UTC)
yeah, and so much of that respect is in the eye of the beholder. different levels of it anyway. like respect to one person maybe more basic then it is so another. ugh i dunno. im just too tired.

did you see my hair?
6th-Jan-2005 07:03 am (UTC)
Yeah your hair looks really cool. I wanted pink hair for the longest time. I didn't get a chance to really write what I wanted to say because I was at work so I had to cut my response pretty short so sorry for not mentioning it.

I see what you're saying about the eye of the beholder thing...but on the other hand I think there is a general sense of the word respect that everyone can understand and relate to.

You know I don't think you're treating with respect 97% of the time but I guess that's where the eye of the beholder deal comes in because maybe to you, you really are being treated with respect but to the rest of the world it simply does not appear that way.

Have a great time in nyc. I hope you have a safe flight. It's supposed to be really icy and stuff but you'll probably be out of Buffalo before it gets really bad..so have fun hun :)
6th-Jan-2005 05:50 am (UTC) - Love is pee-chee, but sex is an all season sport

I think that we each have our own needs for companionship and intimacy, and that we define those needs in different ways. What you may need to feel loved, I may not be able to provide. What you may think of as a natural expression of your love for me, I may find either lacking or stifleing.


A perceived lack of interest in love is more likeley an expression of something else. An unwillingness to get hurt, or play games, or debase oneself, or seek aproval, or some such.

6th-Jan-2005 05:53 am (UTC) - Re: Love is pee-chee, but sex is an all season sport
yeah. true. im just talking on a basic level though. but yeah. i see what your sayin
6th-Jan-2005 06:24 am (UTC) - Re: Love is pee-chee, but sex is an all season sport
Heh, thought I was on a basic level. Base level anyway ;-)

Have fun in NY. Luv the hair.
6th-Jan-2005 08:09 am (UTC) - Re: Love is pee-chee, but sex is an all season sport
thanks :)
6th-Jan-2005 06:24 am (UTC)
Yes, and they're all nuns...
6th-Jan-2005 08:08 am (UTC)
hehe thats cute ;)
6th-Jan-2005 06:10 pm (UTC)
totally.
6th-Jan-2005 08:39 pm (UTC)
that sucks. a lot
7th-Jan-2005 05:26 pm (UTC)
yeah, definitely. i gave up on those people, because there really just is no point. sad.
7th-Jan-2005 07:33 pm (UTC)
its hard to give up on people i love with my entire heart
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